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       "DiPStick"
Drill Science Engineering Management Principles
Relationship Precursors
Positive Affects
Affection
Attention
undivided)
Affirmation
Kind statements
Affectionate statements
Appreciative statements
Acts of Service
Gifts
Physical Touch
Enthusiasm (Inspiration - Conviction - Afflatus)
Passion
Inner Conviction
Connection
Shared Conviction
Intuition
Discovered Conviction
Humor
Affiliative
Enhances relationships
Wit
Subtlety
Enhances group cohesiveness
Bonding in the moment
We are in this together
Promotes creativity
Self esteem
Well being
Emotional stability
Social intimacy
Wit
Subtlety
Self-Enhancing
(emotional regulating)
Optimism
(Good attitude toward life)
Ability to laugh at oneself
(in constructive, non-detrimental manner)
Ability to laugh at circumstances
Ability to laugh at idiosyncrasies of life
Interest
Facial
Broaden triangulation
Body
Mirroring
Moods
Postures
Actions
Verbal
Physical
Validation
(Expressing Acceptance)
Recognition & Acceptance of understandability of:
Thoughts
Feeling
Sensations
Behaviours
Presence
Accurate reflection
MindreadingRelating as to being interested in their thinking
NormalizingNormalizing of recognizing emotional reactions that anyone would have
UnderstandingUnderstanding behavior in terms of history and biology
Radical Genuineness
Sharing as equals
Undertanding emotion someone is feeling on a very deep level.
Negative Affects
Anger
Belligerence
Contempt
Criticism
Defensiveness
Disgust
Domineering
Fear/Tension
Sadness
Stonewalling
Threats
Whining